Hearing a sincere compliment triggers the happiness level of our neurons, making us feel good about ourselves. It’s the way us humans are wired and programmed. Compliments are very powerful reinforcements that directly influence a person´s enthusiasm and inspiration.
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Here are some reasons why men need to be complimented too:
Every man wants to be complimented, especially by the opposite sex. But what most women don’t know is that men want to be admired for their character more than for their looks and success. If a man is handsome, chances are he will always receive compliments focused on his physical appearance, so don’t be like the others. Besides, he didn’t choose his looks, he didn’t earn them: it’s something he was lucky enough to be born with. So, focusing your compliments on his character will have a greater impact, as they are directed at something he has worked for himself. And, going back to the same argument again, if he’s handsome he probably hasn’t received too many compliments related to his character, which will make you even more unforgettable.
What most women don’t know is that men want to
be admired for their character more than for their looks and success
Every man wants to stand out from the crowd. Especially when you’ve just met or are in the early stages of your relationship he would love to know that, compared to the other men in your life, he’s the winner. If you make him feel special, he will reciprocate in kind.
There are more insecure men than women. Men have a deep-seated fear of not measuring up. Complimenting his skills validates his level of competence in whatever he is doing. Furthermore, if these skills are related to roles typically performed by men the compliments will validate his masculinity, make him feel more confident and more motivated to do even better.
Compliments are a way of showing your appreciation. When a man knows that you are paying attention to him and his efforts, he will remember those positive reinforcements. These positive reinforcements will motivate him to become an even better man. This is even more helpful if you have been together for several years. You may no longer show him your gratitude or give him compliments, since he is doing things the way he is supposed to do them. But men still want to hear that they are appreciated and that you are grateful and happy that he is your partner.
When a man knows that you are paying attention to him and his efforts,
he will remember those positive reinforcements
Security is vital for men, especially if they are in a relationship. Flattering your guy and complimenting him on how good he makes you feel will let him know that he is doing the right thing, which will make him feel secure within the relationship. As a result, he’ll try even harder for the simple fact that you’ve verbalized your love and appreciation.
And so, those are 5 reasons why men also need to be complimented. Remember that, just as you love to receive compliments, men do too, so making it reciprocal will get you to the top of the dating world.
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