7 things you should NEVER give up for your boyfriend. There are things you should never change as an empowered woman even if you have a boyfriend. Take note!
When we have a boyfriend, sometimes we change our ideals to give all our attention to that special person, or he is the one who asks us to vary some things in order to have us just for them. But, as the empowered woman that you are, you should keep in mind that having a partner does not mean that you should leave yourself.
Therefore, while each person has different dreams and goals which should be shared with your partner, they should not be changed at the convenience of one of the parties.
So, if your boyfriend asks you to change for him, as Ariana Grande said, “Thank you, next”.
We’ve all got that friend who didn’t study modelling or acting, or didn’t chase another one of her dreams, because her boyfriend didn’t agree. Well, don’t let the same thing happen to you. Stick to what you want. This will also mean that you won’t be left wanting to try new things.
Beauty standards are still very marked in our society. However, you should not change for anyone, much less because of a bad comment from your boyfriend. Neither your clothes, nor your weight, nor anything about your appearance should change to please others. It should change to make you happy.
You should not change for anyone, much less because of a bad comment from your boyfriend
It is natural that when we have a partner we want to spend as much time as possible with them. However, your boyfriend telling you not to talk to this or that friend is also unacceptable. Remember that your friends are the ones who stay with you always, so don’t cancel on them or put them off. Continue with your friendship despite your relationship.
Don’t let your boyfriend criticize every single thing you like. If your boyfriend is fitness-crazy and you like to eat your chicken wings, go ahead. Don’t change your habits for others, do it for you and don’t deny yourself that treat, ever.
Your originality and your personality is what will always make them remember you. If your boyfriend asks you to change your way of thinking and your beliefs, then get out of there sister. Be proud of who you are and fight for what you want.
Be proud of who you are and fight for what you want
Your values are what will define you as a person and are a reflection of what you were taught at home. If you like to help others, don’t let your boyfriend make fun of you or criticize you for it. Everyone behaves differently in certain situations and that doesn’t mean that he is right or wrong.
If there is something that some people hate, it is honesty. If you are a sincere person, then don’t be afraid to tell him that you don’t like one of his friends. It doesn’t mean you’re rude either, but it’s not good to pretend to be something you’re not.